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One More Pushup!

Anand Patel

Anand Patel

By Anand Patel

In an attempt to jumpstart the fitness routine I once followed, I decided to sign up for a three-week boot camp. As we are now entering the third and final week, I am wondering how am I possibly going to work-out with the same intensity and discipline at the gym on my own once the week is over. There is something about exercising in a group environment (or even with a partner), having each other and a trainer to encourage and push you beyond what you mentally thought you can achieve that makes boot camps so successful. Come on! One more pushup!

It got me thinking about a truth that also applies to our personal and professional lives – who do we surround ourselves with? Just as the boot camp environment works by having your peers challenge you to continually improve, we also need similar peers around us in other aspects of our lives. Sit back for a moment and think about the people who you surround yourself with in your life. Would you consider them people who encourage you? Or do they bring you down?  Do they push you to think bigger and strive for more? Or do they cloud your judgment with fear and negativity?

In real estate, we all know agents who are complaining about how bad the market is, and blaming the economy for their lack of sales. We also know agents who, in spite of the market, are optimistic and making the best of the situation. These agents are doing extremely well. Which ones do you surround yourself with? Which ones do you allow to influence your thoughts and mood?

Now, keep in mind, this goes both ways. Are YOU a person who uplifts others, encourages them, and pushes them to do more and grow personally and professionally? Or do you bring them down, discouraging their goals, dreams, ideas, and ambitions? Which person do you want to be?

Just some food for thought as you start off your week. Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got a couple of more pushups I need to knock out.

Have a great week!

Anand Patel is a broker licensed in Florida, Georgia, Tennessee, and Mississippi with Elite REO Services and Elite Premier Properties. You can connect with Anand on Twitter: @anand_tampa; Facebook: www.facebook.com/livingelite; LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/anandpatel1 or on the Web at www.anandsblog.com.

Comments
  1. Great post Anand! This is so important for new agents – they need a positive voice as they begin their real estate career. Thanks for writing.

  2. Thanks Stefanie. You’re right, especially for new agents. Who they surround themselves with initially can really “set the tone” for their success level.

  3. Love it, Anand! As a former boot camp owner (and now in the RE industry) I love the analogy. We are who we surround ourselves with….truly. It is too easy to shoot low when we think/workout alone…but when we surround ourselves with positive energy, and exude it ourselves, well, the sky is the limit! Thanks for a great post!

  4. Thanks Caroline!

  5. I live everyday of my life by those rules! excellent post!

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